Going beyond the Dating trap
- This CD
- A 2-hr audio CD talk and exercise driven introduction to dating skills
- Introduces the differences between male and female and their communication styles
Gives pointers on NOT turning a date into an interview
Gives exercise to identify what you really are looking for
- List of your knowledge of your own identity
List of your interests, values, what you spend your time doing
List of attitudes towards the opposite gender, sex
List of your freedoms (areas you feel you are not limited) and barriers (areas which you have a definite opinion about – eg. Jobs, romance, sex, money [yours and mine or ours])
List of what you expect from the other person
Discusses the trap of getting into a relationship because of your own needs (frozen or otherwise) eg biological clock running out – want a child and a father for it.
Discusses the issues around dependent, independent and interdependent – how male and female are different and complimentary. The electrical power is at the female socket end because it is internal and protected and the male plugs into this to turn the latent energy into useful work. – applying the Law of Attraction to Attracting the Perfect Partner